Just because something happens a lot doesn't mean you get used to it. If you get punched in the arm everyday, you aren't going to lose feeling in your arm, the bruise is going to get bigger.
I am a very internal person; I don't like conflict. By all means, I avoid it whenever I can. I really just take it whenever it's given, I don't fight back. It's easy to assume that people like that don't care anymore, but they do. Verbal attacks, death stares, etc. They aren't something you get used too. They are something you deal with.
I would recommend not bottling things up until there is so much pressure in the bottle that it explodes. From experience, snapping is the worse thing to do. It usually results in the situation looking very twisted from reality. Isn't it the worst when someone pushes you, so you push back, then you get in trouble for it? It's the timeless tale of second person getting caught. This is one of the reason I have the tenacity of letting things go.
I can not, and refuse to put up this any longer.
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