Sunday, August 31, 2014
That Virtual Feeling
More and more I find myself extremely dissatisfied with social media sites. I pass time scrolling through them, all the way thinking of other more productive things I could be doing. I crave that physical contact. I crave the laughter shared amongst friends, the adventures, the conversations, the physical I'm actually here with you not just texting you or seeing a picture of you on Instagram. The internet isn't close enough, and I crave that closeness. I think we all do.
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Same. I actually had that feeling this morning, wondering how it would be to actually experience those memories in the photos. Half of the time the pictures people post aren't genuine, they're only there to somehow prove that they were "having fun". Anyone can put on a smile for the camera, but can they really have a good time without carrying the cell phone with them while with friends? I completely agree that we all crave interaction, internet was supposed to make it easier, but it's true that there has been a barrier between humans since it's boom. And on the physical contact, I know that school isn't enough, but unfortunately that's the only time that schedules don't conflict. Maybe we're afraid of being rejected when we're bored or lonely and don't ask others for their company?
ReplyDeleteVictoria, this is the first comment I have ever received on this blog. Thank you very much for commenting. I love hearing others thoughts. I love that you reached out. That is the problem-reaching out; I think you're right to say people are afraid of rejection. Judgement as well. It's hard to open up, but as Charles Bukowski said (as he described a different kind of light) "the more often you learn to do it,
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Just saw this awesome reply! You're very welcome. I thought it was about time that I shared what I think after reading your posts since that day we went to the Museum of Tolerance. I'm happy to hear your thoughts and let you know that it doesn't go unnoticed. I love this Bukowski incorporation, this poem is definitely going to stay with me in so many ways. It is so beautiful, and here comes the cliche... and so are you inside and out!
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